osodecanela | Ken Starr wants to annull my marriage.

I posted a video yesterday that makes me cry everytime I watch it. So does looking at this image of me placing the wedding ring on my husband's finger. It melts my heart. The memory of the day we finally exchanged vows burns bright in my minds eye, and means more to me than I had ever expected it to. I felt called to inscribe this image, to send to the courage campaign, with my blessing to use how they can.

As for Ken Starr, I hope he comes to understand the pain he's helping to cause us, the heartache of more than 36,000 of us who are being told we are lesser than, and that our lives, our love and our commitment to one another does not count. It's easy to wish him ill, to see him burn for his prejudice, but truthfully all I really want is for him to experience the pain we bear because of his actions and the cause he represents. I cannot believe that anyone who truly understands this hurt, could be so callous, so cavelier, so cold.